Tue. Sep 27th, 2022
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I was told I had an incurable illness, I didn’t know how to break the news to my children.

The doctor said I only had a year or two left, but couldn’t give me an exact timing.

I can’t begin to express my gratitude – your care brought me so much comfort

I had started to experience a lot of pain and didn’t want to upset them. That’s why I wrote to you.

I’m a widower of 67, my son is 38 and my daughter is 36.

They both live far away, and have busy lives and their own families, and I feared becoming a burden.

You told me how important it was that I got support, and suggested I ask my kids to visit – even if I chose not to tell them I was dying yet.

You also recommended I contact Pain Concern (painconcern.org.uk, 0300 123 0789).

Get in touch with Deidre

Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.

Send an email to deardeidre@the-sun.co.uk

You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page.

I can’t begin to express my gratitude. Your care brought me so much hope and comfort.

Seeing my children and grandchildren took my mind off my pain and I was able to break the news gently.

DEIDRE SAYS: Having those we love close by is so important, especially in difficult times.



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By being honest with them, you have been able to process your difficult news – together.

I hope you continue to find comfort and spend quality time with your loved ones.

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